Parents help children be kept, BE HAPPY AND LEARN

INTRODUCTION
Start of elementary school should be a joyful experience and value , but
for some children it is blighted by bullying . Bullying can have an impact
more negative in work , health, self -esteem and confidence of children . children with
needs or a disability are particularly vulnerable to violence .

Be aware
Parents and family members are often the first to spot the signs of exercise
violence against their child . Pay attention torn clothes , cuts and injuries
bodily evil whims , leaving friends , aggression against siblings , and
reluctance to go to school .

WHAT IS BULLYING ?
Bullying can take many forms , from harassment to threats and
physical violence . And whatever kind it may be, bullying can be terrifying for a child and
upsetting for parents and carers .

WHAT CAN YOU DO ?
1 . Talk with your child about school , what i like and what hinders , and who are
friends of him / her. Do not force your child to talk to you , simply reassure
that they can trust you and that your goal is to help to solve problems ,
whatsoever . Remind them that they have not done anything wrong . Encourage them
to talk to any adult , he / es trust .
2 . Keep notes on anything you find , and encourage your child to
always speak with you .
3 . Contact the school as soon as you suspect there is a problem .
The school will have the will and desire as much as you do to overcome this situation .
• Talk to the class , and remember that it is not the school's fault . by the
looking at the situation with the teacher and monitoring contact between the child
you and him / her to bully your child , the situation can be resolved fairly
easier .
• Encourage your child to expand his circle of friends , and to seek out
each other to care for each other .
• If the bullying persists , contact school again and write
headmaster , in order to learn more about how the problem of
violence in school by the school . In this way you can understand exactly
what is being done to tackle this situation . Continue to keep records
about everything that is happening .
4 . Reassure your child that ignoring the situation will not make it go away ,
may in fact be even more difficult . Children need to gain confidence that
is not their fault and that no one deserves to be bullied . Do not encourage them to
retaliate, this can only cause more problems and can get them hurt
more .
5 . Who can I contact? If you are not satisfied with the way of handling the situation
by the school , you can contact the Local Education [ Local Education
Authority ] and with the school .
If the concern goes to physical violence , you can contact the police . Police can not
undertake anything against children aged under 10 years , but can issue types
its feats count them before their parents .
Follow the right path and do not take matters into your own hands .
It is much better not to confront problematic types or with their parents . this
can lead to serious confusion and other problems for you and your baby .
Do not allow your child to miss school
No matter how upset your child is not no way you can let them stay
at home . Parents can be sued if you do not send their child to school . The most
best you can do , is to provide your child that this situation will be overcome and that
he / she has not done anything wrong .

When your child disturbs the other
Just as you are alert to signs that your child is a victim , you also need to be
well aware that speak to signs that your child is disturbing others . your Child
can imitate aggressive behavior and not see them as wrong , or it can be a
way of expressing feelings when going through a difficult phase .
• Talk with your son or daughter about the reasons for their behavior in this
so , try to ask him or her to devastating effect understandable that
their behavior on others .
• Make sure that your family not be accessed by anyone with aggressive goals
or by force , and show your child how others can be attached without
the need for violence .
• Discuss the situation with the class teacher of your child to see how they can
cooperate with the school to end the violence .
• Make sure your child knows that he / she should be supported by others and not
The save praise when he or she shows the / good to others .
• Talk regularly about the situation to make sure it does not hide problems
serious unrest behind the stage .